Sunday, April 11, 2010

At last...


Today...at long last...I finally got to take my baby to Roan Mountain. The summit of Round Bald, to be exact. Holy ground for me...the place where I feel closest to God on this earth.
Ever since I set foot on this place last year, my one desire has been to bring Alan to share this incredible place, and it seems as though we've been thwarted at every turn, ever since he got home. This morning, we finally got the chance to go.
We left early in the morning, complete with full travel mugs and a thermos full of fresh brewed coffee. The air was chill and there was a stiff breeze, but there was not a cloud in the sky, and we bundled up well before heading out.

Although there were quite a few cars in the parking lot, the place was fairly deserted, and we saw no other hikers on our way to the summit. Once up there, though, we did notice a couple who were striking their tent not far from my Rock Circle, and although we had to share the space briefly, they soon left us to our peace. And peace it was....there is nothing like standing at the summit of the world to appreciate the gift our creator has given us.
After a long while, spent sharing with each other, and just being in awe of the place, we headed down through the woods, exploring as we went. There are several places where we ventured off the beaten path, and found wonderful places to just simply be. One of those places was a grove of old oaks, still stripped of greenery from the winter, one of which had a low branch that grew out horizontally from the ground within an easy climb. We promptly made use of this natural bench, and sat for another long while, enjoying the remnants of our coffee and absorbing the total quiet and the magnificent view, safe in our cocoon of solitude, knowing that we would not be disturbed. It was bliss.
All in all, we had an absolutely perfect morning, one which I'm sure will often be repeated in the coming years...which suits me to a T. I can't think of a more perfect place to spend time recapturing my sanity from the hectic weeks I spend at the office....and more importantly, reconnecting with my other half.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Old Friends, New Friends...Dear Friends

This past weekend was, of course, Easter weekend. It's always this time of year...Spring Break... that I get to head to Kinston, NC to visit my very dear friends, Bonnie and Scott. I've mentioned them quite a few times in this blog, already. But this visit was special for different reasons. First, this year, since Alan is home now, they decided to come see US instead of the other way around. Second, this was their first trip to the Ridge, so it gave us a great opportunity to show it off. And third, of course, was the fact that after so many years...they'd finally get the chance to meet my husband.
All went incredibly well...the weather was perfect, and stayed stunningly beautiful all weekend. They arrived on Friday afternoon, just in time to savor one of my Mother-In-Law's wonderfully tasty homemade soups. Saturday was spent cruising around town, shopping at the flea market and eating a positively gluttonous meal at my favorite local restaurant...a place called Fatz (for good reason, I might add...yumm!). Sunday morning, Alan and I went and ate breakfast with our neighbors at the church while Scott and Bonnie slept in, and then we all headed for the Blue Hole. Since Alan and I had just been there recently, I knew it would be in good shape for a visit...the same can still not be said for places like Roan Mtn. (still under snow) or Backbone Rock, which really needs to be driven to after the leaves come out so the cool, foresty drive there can be enjoyed to the fullest. Most of the trees up here are hardwoods, and still devoid of their leaves, although to be fair many of them are now finally starting to bud and bloom, thank goodness. (I'm so everlastingly sick of everything looking dead...bring on Spring, already!) Regardless...the Blue Hole is very close to home, and never fails to impress, regardless of the season, and this time was no exception. They loved it, and so did we...again. And the best part of it...? Since we weren't alone this time, we had someone to take pics...finally! So now, at long last, we have a few of us...together.

Thursday, April 1, 2010

One Month In...

It has now been a little over a month since Alan came home. I would have posted sooner, but I have been lost in the miracle of simply existing in the same world as my other half. I can not describe the simple joy of getting out of the shower in the morning and hearing the coffee grinder, knowing who's operating it...or whose idea it was to get one in the first place. Or the love that grips my heart every time I open my lunch bag to reveal a lovingly crafted sandwich....or the random texts that I now have the honor and privilege of receiving...something the rest of the world takes for granted, I'm sure....but we never will.

All has not been letter-perfect....this is the real world we're talking about, after all. We knew there would be minor adjustments here and there...we expected them. And there have been. But they have been so minor, compared to the vastness of what we've conquored, they barely even register. Here one minute... gone the next. As they should be.
Last weekend, it finally appeared as though we'd get to start adventuring a bit. It's either been snowing, raining, or bitterly cold ever since he came home. A couple of weeks ago, an attempt to go to Roan Mtn. had to be aborted due to the two feet of snow still at the top, which obliterated all trails. We were not about to plow through that, so we took a pic in the parking lot and abandoned the attempt for a warmer, less snow-covered day. A break in the clouds (and the temps) last weekend sent us on a drive, where we ended up at the Blue Hole...one of my favorite spots up here that I've mentioned before. After climbing down to the bottom, we must have sat on the boulders and just soaked it all in for over an hour. We were alone, thank goodness...nothing to break the solitude. And he was amazed, just as I knew he would be when I first found this incredible spot where time just seems to stand still. The utter peace that surrounds you here is a balm to the weary soul, and its effect on him was fairly evident in the pic I snapped while watching him soak it up. Being able to experience it all over again through his eyes brought tears to mine, and it was such a rare and special time for both of us, I'll never forget it.
Pure magic...in its purest form.